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		<title>More Wikipedia Goodness!</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Jun 2012 04:20:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Susan Gerbic</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Would like to share two inspirational Wikipedia page make-overs with the SheThought readers. You might remember <a href="http://shethought.com/2012/01/30/wikipedia-and-skeptic-women/">my last blog here</a> when I asked for readers to please step up and help improve the Wikipedia pages of our female spokespeople. I thought that maybe a great start would be the women who are going to <p><em>Continue reading <a href="http://shethought.com/2012/06/14/more-wikipedia-goodness/">More Wikipedia Goodness!</a></em></p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Would like to share two inspirational Wikipedia page make-overs with the SheThought readers. You might remember <a href="http://shethought.com/2012/01/30/wikipedia-and-skeptic-women/">my last blog here</a> when I asked for readers to please step up and help improve the Wikipedia pages of our female spokespeople. I thought that maybe a great start would be the women who are going to be speaking at the <a href="Women in Secularism">Women in Secularism</a> conference May 18th, 2012.</p>
<p>I felt that a blog that focuses on woman&#8217;s issues might find some sympathetic editors, even a single new editor would be fantastic. Well I heard from no one. Despite my willingness to train, no one wrote to me.</p>
<p>In the mean time things were still getting done. I wrote to most of the women on the blog explaining the need to improve their pages. Received one negative rude remark from one, silence from most of the rest and one very welcoming conference speaker. I would like to share the improvements to her page, all shiny and fresh in time for the CFI conference.</p>
<p>Sikivu Hutchinson wrote back and supplied me will current citations and suggestions for the page. One friend, Wendy Hughes supplied me with more information about Sikivu, and the rest of the help came from the people who are already editors on the We Got Your Wiki Back! project. Brian Engler rose to the occasion with some photos he had taken from past conferences, and suggestions and corrections from other current editors allowed me to upload this new page.</p>
<p><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Sikivu_Hutchinson&amp;oldid=486342132">Here is the before page</a></p>
<p><a href="http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sikivu_Hutchinson">Here is the after page</a></p>
<p>One thing I learned on this project was that apparently there was a Billboard project that links current Black non-believers with Black non-believers from the past. Sikivu&#8217;s picture was linked up with Zora Neale Hurston. This allowed me to place the street-view image on both women&#8217;s Wikipedia pages. Zora receives about 35K hits each month, because Sikivu&#8217;s Wikipedia page is hyperlinked to that photo, it exposes Sikivu&#8217;s page to an extra 35K people as well.</p>
<p>We can see if there has been additional exposure to Sikivu&#8217;s Wikipedia page by using this tool. We can&#8217;t compare numbers to last year because the page hasn&#8217;t been around that long. We can see April 2012 vs Feb 2012 the page is receiving about 22% more hits. Nothing close to the 35K hits Zora received Feb 2012, but then we can only do what we can do. Watch this stat tool in late May. There should be a surge in hits to her page the day before the conference and climb during the next few days. (note: this tool might be off by 24 hours)</p>
<p>LOVE IT?</p>
<p>Here is one more make-over</p>
<p>Living in Salinas, CA, I always attend <a href="http://www.skepticalcon.org/">SkeptiCal</a> which is held nearby in Berkeley. In preparation for that conference I looked around and wrote to Alison Gopnik who would be speaking on “The Philosophical Baby; What children’s minds tell us about love, truth and the meaning of life&#8221;. I wrote to Alison who quickly responded that she would gladly help with citations and anything we needed. I did another call-out for help. This time on my blog Guerrilla Skepticism on Wikipeida. Guess what? Again no response. Finally another one of the We Got Your Wiki Back! editors said he would take on the task. And what a job Dustin Phillips did. Only took him a couple weeks and again was launched in time for <a href="http://guerrillaskepticismonwikipedia.blogspot.com/2012/04/wikipedia-and-skeptical-2012.html">SkeptiCal</a> (see this blog for more info about conferences) I managed to get a nice picture of her lecturing at the conference and had it uploaded to her Wikipedia page before she was finished lecturing.</p>
<p><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Alison_Gopnik&amp;oldid=480389606">Alison Gopnik before</a></p>
<p><a href="http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alison_Gopnik">Alison Gopnik after</a></p>
<p>Lets see what kind of hits Alison Gopnik is receiving. <a href="http://stats.grok.se/en/201204/Alison%20Gopnik">This stat tool shows</a> a 100% spike in her numbers the day of the conference April 21, 2012.</p>
<p>So now what? I&#8217;m not sure what to think? I&#8217;m told female Wikipedia editors only make up 9% of total editors. Does that concern you? The majority of the information the world is accessing (and Yes, they are accessing it) is written by men. For some people this is an appalling number. I&#8217;m sure that is true. But for the purposes of improving skeptical content on Wikipedia, and having the backs of our skeptical spokespeople I&#8217;m not concerned. An editor is an editor. I judge by dedication to the task. I only have a handful right now, but they are awesome. Surely there are more of you out there? Please join us. Female and Male, the skeptical movement needs you.</p>
<p>For more information about me and this project please visit <a href="http://www.skepticblog.org/2012/05/03/the-wikapediatrician/">SkepticBlog</a>.</p>
<p>Contact me at susangerbic@yahoo.com</p>
<p>P.S. since writing this blog, I&#8217;ve heard from one other speaker. Stay tuned for another page make-over.</p>
<div id="crp_related"><h3>Related Posts:</h3><ul><li><a href="http://shethought.com/2012/01/30/wikipedia-and-skeptic-women/" rel="bookmark" class="crp_title">Wikipedia and Skeptic Women</a></li><li><a href="http://shethought.com/2010/04/22/good-in-blog-8-am-i-good-in-blog-different-post-same-title/" rel="bookmark" class="crp_title">Good in Blog #8 – Am I Good in Blog (Different Post, Same Title)</a></li><li><a href="http://shethought.com/2010/07/20/skepticism-not-just-debunking-woo/" rel="bookmark" class="crp_title">Skepticism: Not Just Debunking Woo?</a></li></ul></div><p>=======<br />
This post, <a href="http://shethought.com/2012/06/14/more-wikipedia-goodness/" rel="bookmark">More Wikipedia Goodness!</a>, originally appeared on <a href="http://shethought.com">She Thought</a> on June 14, 2012.<br />
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		<title>Fecal Mythology</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 May 2012 18:20:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anthropologist Underground</dc:creator>
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Defecation is the great equalizer. Everyone drops trou from time to time. Seriously, everyone. Members of the kingdom animalia, which includes the popular girls in high school, dictators, presidents, attorneys, doctors, supermodels, and <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Michael_Stipe">Michael Stipe</a>, all need to download some brownware <p><em>Continue reading <a href="http://shethought.com/2012/05/28/fecal-mythology/">Fecal Mythology</a></em></p>]]></description>
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Defecation is the great equalizer. Everyone drops trou from time to time. Seriously, everyone. Members of the kingdom animalia, which includes the popular girls in high school, dictators, presidents, attorneys, doctors, supermodels, and <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Michael_Stipe">Michael Stipe</a>, all need to download some brownware evacuate our bowels occasionally. Even me! It’s the result of metabolism. Speaking only for myself, I tend not to think about this metabolic process much unless I’m sick. However, there are people, at least in Western societies, who fetishize the functioning of their colons and perform all sorts of fascinating rituals to rid themselves of evil feces. Which is exactly why I became an anthropologist. Other people are weird.</p>
<p>Even weird people are complex, and the lines of colonic fetishism for health vs. sexual reasons sometimes overlap. People who enjoy insertive anal stimulation may seek out colonic therapies to achieve orgasm. <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Klismaphilia">Klismaphiliacs</a> in particular receive “&#8230;arousal from introducing liquids into the rectum and colon via the anus.”  Google “enemarotica” for more on this. Of course not all of colonic health fetishization is explicitly sexual.</p>
<p>Alternative colonic health practices all look like purification rituals to me. Proponents imagine a discredited concept called <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Colon_cleansing">auto-intoxication</a> in which feces stagnate in a closed system continually leaching poisonous substances into the bloodstream. The basic premise is that feces are inherently evil toxic and performing extreme colon cleansing rituals will get rid of the devil toxic stuff, ushering in “true” health and purity. And lower BMI. And cure asthma. And cure halitosis. And improve body odor. And really, who doesn’t want to smell like honey?</p>
<p>On one end of the colonic health spectrum is eating fiber and self-administering laxatives and enemas to assist or achieve ease of elimination. Near the other end is commercial <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Colon_cleansing">colon hydrotherapy</a>. Here’s a <a href="http://www.colon-cleanse-information.com/high-colonic.html">description</a> of that process:</p>
<p>“&#8230;a colonic irrigation [also called hydrotherapy] is a procedure where a jet of water is inserted into the colon through the rectum and the whole colon is physically washed for hours with warm streams of water. The procedure takes two to four hours&#8230;”</p>
<p>The very latest fad is a bit of an outlier, fecal microbial transplantation, which I’ll get into in a minute.</p>
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<p>There are medically valid reasons for some practices like colon cleansing enema, such as prior to a colonoscopy under the direction of a medical doctor. There is a great deal of potential for harm from the rogue practice of commercial colonic hydrotherapy. People <a href="http://www.quackwatch.org/01QuackeryRelatedTopics/gastro.html">have died from this</a> from a wide variety of fatal practitioner errors including improper sterilisation of equipment. The most common complication seems to be bowel perforation, where there is improper insertion or the pressure from the hydrotherapy ruptures the colon, flooding the abdominal cavity with fecal slurry. This is often fatal. Shooting water, or herbal water, or coffee water into your colon under pressure is not a benign undertaking.</p>
<p>The new holy grail of alternative colonic ritual is fecal microbial transplantation (FMT), for which <a href="http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed?term=fecal%20microbiota%20transplantation">PubMed</a> lists a number of studies supporting its use for a very specific bacterium which causes severe diarrhea. Dr. Mark Crislip <a href="http://www.sciencebasedmedicine.org/index.php/the-species-in-the-feces/">describes</a> the process as it occurs under close medical supervision:</p>
<p><span style="color: #808080;"><em>The best therapy, best being the highest cure rate, for C. difficile is the stool transplant [...] The stool of a spouse (although it should be parents or children) is pureed and given either down a nasogastric tube or as an enema. Efficacy is almost 100%. There are worries about disease transfer, as some infections are spread by the fecal-oral route [...] most spouses, unlike other relatives, probably share most infections anyway.</em></span></p>
<p>As Crislip said in his lovely <a href="http://moremark.squarespace.com/quackcast-home/">Quackcast</a> episode 86 on the subject, most spouses have fecal-oralled, intentionally or otherwise, and are therefore unlikely to introduce a novel infection. In other words, the donor in this scenario is a close relative who is likely to be microbially compatible with the recipient.</p>
<p>Contrast that with a naturopath (<a href="http://www.sciencebasedmedicine.org/index.php/defining-what-a-physician-is/">not an actual medical doctor</a>) in Portland who has taken FMT well beyond the evidence of safety and efficacy for <em>C. difficile</em>. From <a href="http://wweek.com/portland/article-18815-fecal_matters.html">Willamette Week</a>:</p>
<p><span style="color: #999999;"><em>Portland naturopath Mark G. Davis, who opened the Bright Medicine Clinic four months ago, is using fecal microbial transplantation for other health problems, including autoimmune disease, eczema, asthma, multiple sclerosis and depression. </em></span><br />
<span style="color: #999999;"><em>“What makes me unique,” Davis says, “is that I’m doing it for other ailments.”</em></span><br />
<span style="color: #999999;"><em>[...]</em></span><br />
<span style="color: #999999;"><em>Davis needs “clean” excrement from a donor who hasn’t taken antibiotics or been sick recently. He dilutes the sample in saline, filters the slurry and injects the liquid into the patient via enema.</em></span></p>
<p>Note the stress on purity. The donor is a thirteen-year-old boy whose fecal microbial population has never been tainted eradicated by oral antibiotics. He is “pristine.” And his pristine fecal slurry is harvested and inserted into unrelated adults. It’s not clear from the article whether or not this boy has been tested for bloodborne pathogens like HIV or what-have-you that might infect his sample if there is any rectal tearing during elimination. It’s also not clear to me whether he’s been vaccinated against vaccine-preventable diseases, although if his parents refused antibiotics, it’s highly probable that they also refused routine childhood vaccinations. Purity might not mean what this particular naturopath thinks it means.</p>
<p>I recently attended a <a href="http://cafescicolorado.org/Flyers/Cafe%20Scientifique%20Flyer%20Fierer.pdf">lecture</a> about human microbial ecology. Oral antibiotics are like rototilling and turning over the soil of intestinal flora. They wipe out the good with the bad. Individual microbial populations are astonishingly diverse, even among relatives. However, our personal microbial ecology evolves over time regardless, and our microbial populations are closely compatible with those who live with us in the same house. There is a great deal of pseudoscience centered around colonic health. I asked about the portland naturopath, and there is cause for concern about introducing novel infections and introducing microbes that are incompatible with an individual’s body chemistry.</p>
<p>The use of a non-relative child donor in the case of the Portland naturopathic FMT protocol skates a bit close to the line between purported health vs. possible sexual reasons for seeking FMT for me. Paying a “pure” child for his feces, liquefying them, and then introducing the slurry into the rectum and colon via the anus seems awfully dubious to me. It reminds me of the <a href="http://msl.rsmjournals.com/content/43/1/85">myth</a>, prevalent in sub-Saharan Africa, that raping a child will cure HIV. Just like the unrelated child-donor FMT, it’s all pre-scientific ideology about using purity as a sword against evil.</p>
<p><em>Cultural Relativism Disclaimer:</em><br />
<em>I am comfortable discussing sex in the abstract, but I won’t publicly discuss my own quirks. As long as all participants are adult, consenting, and safe, I say go for whatever it is that makes you feel amazing. Even though I think your kinks are beyond the pale, I will try not to judge. Except when what you are doing is actually dangerous and/or exploitive. </em></p>
<p><em>I am not a medical doctor and this article is not intended as medical advice beyond encouraging the reader to seek the advice of an actual medical professional.</em></p>
<p><em>*special thanks to my Trophy Husband for help with the graph.</em></p>
<div id="crp_related"><h3>Related Posts:</h3><ul><li><a href="http://shethought.com/2012/02/20/puscast-podcast-a-non-expert-review/" rel="bookmark" class="crp_title">Puscast Podcast: A Non-Expert Review</a></li><li><a href="http://shethought.com/2012/01/27/science-is-real/" rel="bookmark" class="crp_title">Science is Real!</a></li><li><a href="http://shethought.com/2011/02/12/the-sad-saga-of-penelope-dingle-concludes-the-vulnerable-prey-of-complementary-and-alternative-medicine/" rel="bookmark" class="crp_title">The Sad Saga Of Penelope Dingle Concludes &#8211; The &#8216;Vulnerable&#8217; Prey Of Complementary And Alternative Medicine</a></li></ul></div><p>=======<br />
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		<title>Curnir leaves us, but also leaves us a part of him.</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 20 May 2012 19:36:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kitty Mervine</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://shethought.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/44633_432008457317_608787317_4897176_5873789_n.jpg"></a>This week, many of us lost a dear friend. “Curnir” was the name our friend Peter chose for use online. I first met Curnir online at the JREF forums. He was a happy guy, very upbeat, and never was on the forum to be anything but a friend. Far too often people post on <p><em>Continue reading <a href="http://shethought.com/2012/05/20/curnir-leaves-us-but-also-leaves-us-a-part-of-him/">Curnir leaves us, but also leaves us a part of him.</a></em></p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://shethought.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/44633_432008457317_608787317_4897176_5873789_n.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1204" style="margin-left: 2px; margin-right: 2px;" title="44633_432008457317_608787317_4897176_5873789_n" src="http://shethought.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/44633_432008457317_608787317_4897176_5873789_n-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a>This week, many of us lost a dear friend. “Curnir” was the name our friend Peter chose for use online. I first met Curnir online at the JREF forums. He was a happy guy, very upbeat, and never was on the forum to be anything but a friend. Far too often people post on the internet and pretend they are someone they are not. Curnir was never anyone online but the person he was in real life.</p>
<p>Curnir and I became close friends on a chat room many of the JREF forum members frequent. Any time I came onto chat I knew I would be greeted with a “KITTY!” It was like a welcoming hug. Curnir greeted all the regulars with their names, or his own nickname for them, whenever they would log on. You could always count on Curnir letting you know he was so happy you were there. It didn’t matter how bad a day you had or how down you felt, that all cap greeting always made you feel better.<span id="more-1202"></span></p>
<p>Curnir battled many things in his life. He had a disability which made mobility for him difficult. He didn’t complain about it. You knew about it, but he didn’t whine or moan. He sometimes wished he could travel more<a href="http://shethought.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/398494_10150541487082318_608787317_8868225_740863658_n.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1203" title="398494_10150541487082318_608787317_8868225_740863658_n" src="http://shethought.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/398494_10150541487082318_608787317_8868225_740863658_n-284x300.jpg" alt="" width="284" height="300" /></a> easily to see his friends at The Amazing Meeting, or some other event, but that was about all you heard. He never pitied himself, he never wanted pity. He also battled his weight. Curnir was so proud of how he lost an amazing amount of weight. I remember he wrote in chat that he was on a waiting list for weight loss gastric bypass surgery. He said one day he just thought “well maybe I’ll try losing the weight while I’m waiting”. He was very careful about what he ate. This must have been especially hard for him as he loved to cook. He would often share his recipes with his friends online. Still, Curnir persevered and would post before and after photographs as he progressed with his weight loss. Soon, he was a slim handsome young man, and an inspiration to the rest of us. I once asked him how he could cook such delicious meals, and yet not put the weight back on. He would tell me that “just one taste” was enough.</p>
<p>Curnir often cooked meals for his mother and step father. He worried that they “weren’t eating right”. He liked to go over and make a “real meal” for them. Chat friends would get all the details, and sometimes a photograph. I now make some of those some recipes for my family that Curnir cooked for his parents.</p>
<p>Curnir died at age 34, and that is far too young. However, I feel Curnir was a very lucky young man. That is because Curnir appreciated so much about his life. He loved Sweden where he lived. There was not a better country in the world than Sweden in his opinion. The culture, the history, the government, the natural beauty, and the people of Sweden made him feel he was living in the best place on Earth. He never put do<a href="http://shethought.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/206224_5507762317_608787317_154644_8532_n.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1206 alignleft" title="206224_5507762317_608787317_154644_8532_n" src="http://shethought.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/206224_5507762317_608787317_154644_8532_n-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a>wn other countries, well not too much. Other countries couldn’t help it they weren’t Sweden! While most of us whine or complain about our city, state, or country, Curnir just was appreciative being Swedish.</p>
<p>Curnir also appreciated his family. He loved to go over and visit his mother and step father. He posted photographs of his mothers beading work. She is quite talented. He would happily make them dinner. A visit to his parent’s home was never complete however without a mention of his brother, Zigge. Now Curnir had 2 human brothers. Zigge was his dog “brother”. Curnir had a special love of all animals. Whenever I would come onto chat, Curnir would usually have a “Zigge” story to tell me. He would usually say he had a “Zigge and Lisa” story for me. Zigge has a special friend, a cat named Lisa. Lisa does not belong to Curnir’s parents. She is simply a cat from a few houses away that one day decided to join Zigge in his walk. Then Lisa decided it would be fun to visit Zigge where he lived. At first Curnir’s parents tried to put Lisa out of the house. However, they soon realized that Zigge and Lisa were best friends. Zigge and Lisa still spend most of their day together, with Lisa going home to her real home at night. The two animals had some rather fun adventures together, which Curnir would share.</p>
<p>I had always wanted to <a href="http://shethought.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/409296_10150542048272318_608787317_8869191_68463056_n.jpg"><img class="wp-image-1207 alignright" style="margin-left: 2px; margin-right: 2px;" title="409296_10150542048272318_608787317_8869191_68463056_n" src="http://shethought.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/409296_10150542048272318_608787317_8869191_68463056_n-259x300.jpg" alt="" width="181" height="210" /></a>write a skeptic (or critical thinking) children’s book. One day I asked Curnir if he would mind if I wrote down some of the “Zigge and Lisa” stories. The two of us worked together to come up with “Zigge and Lisa, Skeptic Friends”. In the first adventure, Zigge teaches Lisa that trolls really do not live under the bridge. (Zigge and Lisa live in the real Swedish town of Trollhatten). Each step of the writing process, Curnir made sure I “got it right”. Zigge is a Cairn terrier, so I had to correct that he got a “hair cut”. Cairn Terriers like Zigge have their hair “pulled” when they are groomed. If he thought Zigge or Lisa acted out of character, he would correct me. He even helped to make sure the illustrations I did were correct. He sent me many photographs of the animals together. Curnir, with his encouragement, his help, and his enthusiasm, made my dream of writing a skeptic book for young children come true. We were both so proud when the CSI children’s camp requested 50 copies to give out to the young campers. We gave out many more copies (thanks to a friend that helped pay for us to self publish) and sold many copies also. I have letters and emails from parents and children that love the story of the real life dog and cat that live in Sweden. It should be noted that I put a lot of Curnir’s personality into the dog Zigge. Zigge is also very appreciative of being Swedish and loves his family.</p>
<p>Curnir h<a href="http://shethought.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/40714_451463722317_608787317_5293977_7751616_n.jpg"><img class="alignleft  wp-image-1208" style="margin-left: 2px; margin-right: 2px;" title="40714_451463722317_608787317_5293977_7751616_n" src="http://shethought.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/40714_451463722317_608787317_5293977_7751616_n-146x300.jpg" alt="" width="146" height="300" /></a>ad made me promise to come visit him in Sweden next year. My husband travels a lot for business, and my husband was helping me save up frequent flyer miles. I was so excited not only to meet Curnir, but also to meet Zigge and Lisa. Curnir and I were also going to work on writing “Zigge and Lisa 2” soon. He had already sent me many stories of their newest adventures. (Lisa becoming stuck in a pipe in the basement is just one example). I feel sad as I was “Oh write that down, and remember to send it to me when we really get started this summer.” Now I have to try to recall all the stories he mentioned. His mother has kindly asked if she can continue to email me stories about Zigge and Lisa, and I have happily agreed. That’s the kind of family Curnir came from. She knew that I would feel comforted hearing about Zigge and Lisa, and I hope she also feels some comfort from sharing stories about the animals that were so dear to her son.</p>
<p>If anyone would like a copy of “Zigge and Lisa, Skeptic Friends” please get in touch with Sophie via Shethought. It would make me, his friends, and I hope his family, happy to share a book that he inspired and worked so hard with me to make a reality. I’ll be more than happy to send one on.</p>
<p>Curnir sings:</p>
<p><a href="http://shethought.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/CurnirSings.mp3">CurnirSings</a></p>
<p>Editor&#8217;s note: For a copy of Zigge and Lisa, you can contact Sophie using her Yahoo email. She will do her best to help Kitty get copies to everyone who requests them.</p>
<p>Special thanks to Noel Dilks for sharing Curnir&#8217;s voice with us.</p>
<div id="crp_related"><h3>Related Posts:</h3><ul><li><a href="http://shethought.com/2012/02/08/skeptic-stories-for-children-wont-you-please-help/" rel="bookmark" class="crp_title">Skeptic Stories for children &#8211; Won&#8217;t you please help?</a></li><li><a href="http://shethought.com/2012/01/13/a-tale-of-two-treatments/" rel="bookmark" class="crp_title">A Tale of Two Treatments</a></li><li><a href="http://shethought.com/2012/03/06/college-of-curiosity/" rel="bookmark" class="crp_title">College of Curiosity</a></li></ul></div><p>=======<br />
This post, <a href="http://shethought.com/2012/05/20/curnir-leaves-us-but-also-leaves-us-a-part-of-him/" rel="bookmark">Curnir leaves us, but also leaves us a part of him.</a>, originally appeared on <a href="http://shethought.com">She Thought</a> on May 20, 2012.<br />
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		<title>Stress and the Confusion Over if it Causes Disease</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 May 2012 18:00:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sophie Hirschfeld</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://shethought.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/stress.jpg"></a>Stress is bad.</p>
<p>But trying to figure out why it is bad is pretty difficult. Part of the problem is, some people experience stress differently than others. Some people seem to slide right through life&#8217;s issues and come out the other side as if nothing happened. Other people, it seems, can have a major crisis <p><em>Continue reading <a href="http://shethought.com/2012/05/03/stress-and-the-confusion-over-if-it-causes-disease/">Stress and the Confusion Over if it Causes Disease</a></em></p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://shethought.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/stress.jpg"><img class=" wp-image-1194 alignleft" style="margin-left: 2px; margin-right: 2px;" title="stress" src="http://shethought.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/stress.jpg" alt="" width="112" height="84" /></a>Stress is bad.</p>
<p>But trying to figure out why it is bad is pretty difficult. Part of the problem is, some people experience stress differently than others. Some people seem to slide right through life&#8217;s issues and come out the other side as if nothing happened. Other people, it seems, can have a major crisis if they so much as get a hangnail that week. To further complicate things, the difference in how people experience stress seems to also play a role in disease and, as they say, stress leads to disease.</p>
<p>The problem is, that&#8217;s not entirely true. You see, the medical community has been playing badminton with this issue for quite some time. They have found a lot of correlational studies, like the link between cardiovascular disease and stress and the link between obesity and depression. There&#8217;s also a correlation between diabetes and obesity and one between diabetes and depression. These are correlations, but correlation, as they say, is not causation. BUT that doesn&#8217;t mean that correlation is not important. Correlation is very important. It just isn&#8217;t a cause.</p>
<p>This means that stress probably doesn&#8217;t <em>cause</em> disease, but it is possibly related to the progression of some diseases.</p>
<p>What we know:</p>
<p>Stress can <a href="http://psycnet.apa.org/?fa=main.doiLanding&amp;doi=10.1037/0033-2909.130.4.601">decrease some immune system functions while increasing others</a>. Because of how medical science is reported in the media, people&#8217;s understanding of the immune system is limited. Thus, when it was announced that some researchers had seen changes in the immune systems of people under stress, the media interpreted it as a kind of universal reaction.</p>
<p><a href="http://shethought.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/Rocky-500.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1188" title="Rocky-500" src="http://shethought.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/Rocky-500-300x210.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="210" /></a></p>
<p>Instead, stress-response by the body is pretty complicated. What we&#8217;ve found is that stress does change our immune system, but that, alone, doesn&#8217;t lead to disease. In fact, some types of immune response during stress are improved while other types of immune response may leave part of your body vulnerable and what happens during your stress-response depends on the type of stressor and the duration of stress. Thus, stresses like exercise are an overall <a href="http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/0167569994901775">benefit to the immune system</a>. That doesn&#8217;t necessarily mean you won&#8217;t be a little more sickly during an exam.</p>
<p><a href="http://shethought.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/School-movies.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1189" title="The Breakfast Club movie image" src="http://shethought.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/School-movies-300x158.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="158" /></a></p>
<p>But, the immune system doesn&#8217;t protect against all types of disease. Many diseases are not germ-based and some of those diseases are also correlated with stress. When you look at studies on heart disease and stress, you&#8217;ll find an <a href="http://scholar.google.com/scholar?hl=en&amp;q=stress+heart+disease+cause&amp;btnG=Search&amp;as_sdt=0%2C48&amp;as_ylo=&amp;as_vis=0">endless list</a> and much of the information is confusing. Because medical science is still trying to work out the details, what you find may seem inconsistent. Again, what we do learn is context-specific. Marital stress seems to <a href="http://jama.ama-assn.org/content/284/23/3008.short">make heart disease more dangerous for women</a>.</p>
<div id="attachment_1190" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://shethought.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/SLee_TilDeathWedders.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1190" title="SLee_TilDeathWedders" src="http://shethought.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/SLee_TilDeathWedders-300x177.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="177" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">That advertisement just got a million times creepier.</p></div>
<p>While medical science is still trying to tease out how stress relates to heart disease, in most respects, there&#8217;s significant evidence that if risk is there, stress can trigger heart attacks. The sad side of this information is that it comes from natural ways to find a direct correlation: <a title="Heart Attacks and the Newcastle Earthquake (scroll down for the article)." href="http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/1745166">tragedy</a>. Of course, triggering the worst consequence of a disease is not, itself, causing the disease. Individual heart attacks are caused by a blockage in an artery that prevents blood from flowing to the heart. We already know that stress does lead to an increase in blood pressure <a title="They even used porn in this study: The Relationship Among Heart Rate, Carotid dP/dt, and Blood Pressure in Humans as a Function of the Type of Stress" href="http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1469-8986.1978.tb01344.x/abstract">and an increased heart rate</a>. Thus, with the pre-existing condition of plaque-filled arteries, loose plaque or blood clots, we can easily see how a little stress can trigger a heart attack, while the cause of the heart attack was a blood clot and clogged arteries.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/0889159191900164">Cancer is also correlated with stress</a>, but we don&#8217;t know exactly why or how. In fact, we know so little about stress&#8217; correlation to cancer, I hesitate to even expound, because I don&#8217;t want to say something without more confidence in the data.</p>
<p>But, even with cancer, there seems to be confusion by the public that cancer is <em>caused</em> by stress, but that&#8217;s not what the evidence seems to say. Instead (see the above link) most studies on cancer and stress show cancer growth increasing when the individual is under stress. This doesn&#8217;t mean cancer starts with stress, it just means cancer is likely more harmful in those who are stressed, already.</p>
<p>But, even this article isn&#8217;t so simple as it seems. Remember where I mentioned that exercise seems to benefit the immune system (with some sort of implication that exercise decreases stress)? Well, as it turns out, <a href="http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2009/04/090429091338.htm">even that is a conditional thing</a>. While there are health benefits to exercise, including it possibly reducing your stress levels overall, if you&#8217;re stressed before your exercise, those effects may not be quite as beneficial, since your risk of heart attack seems to increase.</p>
<p>So, going for a run on a normal day might not be a big deal, but running from this:</p>
<div id="attachment_1191" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://shethought.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/bear.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1191" title="bear" src="http://shethought.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/bear-300x225.jpg" alt="Don't worry, I think that's his burping face." width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Don&#39;t worry, I think that&#39;s his burping face.</p></div>
<p style="text-align: left;">That could be the added stress needed before a run to end your life early from a heart attack. If it happens daily and you don&#8217;t end up meeting the bear for lunch, I mean.</p>
<p>Of course, this completely ignores our problem over most correlation health studies. Does the stress come before the illness or does the illness come before the stress? Most of the time, we can see links between things, but there are too many variables to pin one thing down as being a cause. Sure, stress may lead to a person doing this:</p>
<p><a href="http://shethought.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/How-junk-food-diet-can-give.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1192" title="How-junk-food-diet-can-give" src="http://shethought.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/How-junk-food-diet-can-give-171x300.jpg" alt="" width="171" height="300" /></a></p>
<p>But that is not an immediate risk. We also know that obesity correlates with depression in such a way that the more obese a person is, the more likely they are to suffer from depression and <a href="http://archinte.ama-assn.org/cgi/content/abstract/163/17/2058">the more weight a person loses, the less depressed they seem to become</a>. So, where stress and depression are linked, we can&#8217;t really say that stress is the causation of various risks associated with obesity, including heart disease, diabetes or cancer.</p>
<p>So, you may wonder, why is this important? It is important because people make decisions about their health based on information they get from the general media. The media seems to advocate this idea that stress causes disease and that idea feeds into various types of bad science.</p>
<p>Some examples:</p>
<p><a href="http://stressfish.com/stress_herbs_reduce_stress.htm" rel="nofollow">Herbs to reduce stress, making odd claims about toxins, stress attacking you and even an apparent misunderstanding of evolution</a>.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.comoxvalleyacupuncture.com/newsletters/newsletter002.html#Stress" rel="nofollow">Accupuncture to treat stress, with dangerous symptoms that might require immediate medical care</a>.</p>
<p><a href="http://tlc.howstuffworks.com/family/aromatherapy-stress-relief.htm" rel="nofollow">Even a recognizable network like TLC has information worth questioning when they make claims about stress-caused illness and then suggest aroma therapy</a>.</p>
<p>I want to be clear about something. It isn&#8217;t that we shouldn&#8217;t try to reduce our stress levels. Seeing a correlation between stress and health should be something that makes us pro-active and even somewhat concerned about our stress levels. At the same time, the outright claims made about stress causing certain health problems (when they confuse correlation with causation) can lead to people ignoring the very real causes that we are aware of. It can also lead to people making poor decisions about their health. The benefits of abstaining from a greasy burger is not the same set of benefits that someone might gain from an hour of meditation or dropping out of an especially challenging project or class. When it comes to changing something like eating habits or exercise, we at least have more solid data on how that benefits us than we do over how to deal with stress.</p>
<p>Of course, since stress really can be a trigger for life-threatening conditions, it is reasonable to reduce stress if you are at risk for a heart attack. At the same time, be aware of what is actually causing that, so that you can change other parts of your lifestyle as well. Stress doesn&#8217;t appear to be the <em>cause</em> of disease. Rather, stress seems to trigger disease-related problems and can increase your predisposition for certain health problems and diseases because of how it affects your immune system, cardiovascular system and even your cellular chemistry. Since enabling a disease is not <em>causing</em> the disease, take care of yourself in ways that are practical, first.</p>
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This post, <a href="http://shethought.com/2012/05/03/stress-and-the-confusion-over-if-it-causes-disease/" rel="bookmark">Stress and the Confusion Over if it Causes Disease</a>, originally appeared on <a href="http://shethought.com">She Thought</a> on May 3, 2012.<br />
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		<title>Lessons in Being Young, Female and Vocal</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Apr 2012 20:45:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Hayley Stevens</dc:creator>
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<a href="http://shethought.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/screaming-child.jpg"></a>If you are less than Thirty years of age then you must accept that you are generally unable to contribute to a discussion or debate because your young age means you do not have the necessary life experience that would make such a contribution worthwhile.<span id="more-1183"></span></p>
<p>Dismissing people and their contribution to a topic or <p><em>Continue reading <a href="http://shethought.com/2012/04/25/lessons-in-being-young-female-and-vocal/">Lessons in Being Young, Female and Vocal</a></em></p>]]></description>
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<div><a href="http://shethought.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/screaming-child.jpg"><img class="alignleft  wp-image-1184" style="margin: 2px;" title="screaming child" src="http://shethought.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/screaming-child.jpg" alt="" width="320" height="337" /></a>If you are less than Thirty years of age then you must accept that you are generally unable to contribute to a discussion or debate because your young age means you do not have the necessary life experience that would make such a contribution worthwhile.<span id="more-1183"></span></p>
<p>Dismissing people and their contribution to a topic or debate will certainly have a positive influence on the next generation whom so many older skeptics agree are those that educational outreach must focus on to pass on the importance of critical thinking. By simply dismissing young people when they try to voice their opinions is a sure way to encourage them to openly question things for the rest of their lives.</p>
<p>If you also happen to be female then you must show an interest in the male skeptics around you or people shall start to suspect that there is something terribly wrong with you – like that you might like ladies instead. If you are not publicly interested in the array of men around you then you are a gay, a &#8216;frigid bitch&#8217;, or a ‘cock tease’. If you do not feel comfortable, or show an interest in discussing crude sex things around people that you hardly know then you are obviously a gay or frigid bitch and people have every right to discuss this about you. This is just how it is. You must accept this.</p>
<p>If you should ever receive abuse from other people and a male comes to your defense in the conversation it is because he wants to get nuddy with you and make hay. It is not possible that he is a friend who is coming to your defense, for he is a man and you are a woman and therefor he wants to do the dirty with you. There are no two ways about it.</p>
<p>When you share your critical thoughts with others, when you voice your opinion and speak your mind do not be under the assumption that it is okay to do this because this is attention seeking behavior and others will see through your wicked attempt at gaining an ego boost for yourself. By even contemplating writing your thoughts on your blog you are clearly attempting to make a name for yourself and make subjects all about you. Any negative reaction you receive as a result of sharing your thoughts is only deserved and you only have yourself to blame for being young, female and daring to be vocal.</p>
<p>The first important lesson you can learn about being a young, female, vocal skeptic (as outlined above) is that you must simply accept from the start that you are an attention seeker whose input cannot be valued because of the few years you have been alive, and any attention you receive as a result of all that you do is your own doing and simply a result of the other person having a penis.</p>
<p>The second important lesson for you to learn is that you must never listen to anybody who tells you these things because they’re lying and what they’re telling you is offensive and cruel and not worth the time it takes to read the words involved.</p>
<p>Blog if you are young, old or middle aged. Be vocal no matter what gender you are, and learn to accept that sometimes your work gets attention because people value your opinion – not because they want to fuck you. I used to fall for these lies and felt that I had to just accept such treatment. Never again.If these few words I have written can help another person avoid falling into that trap of self-doubt, then I’ll die happy.</p></div>
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This post, <a href="http://shethought.com/2012/04/25/lessons-in-being-young-female-and-vocal/" rel="bookmark">Lessons in Being Young, Female and Vocal</a>, originally appeared on <a href="http://shethought.com">She Thought</a> on April 25, 2012.<br />
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		<title>Do You Believe in Life After Death? Part Two</title>
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		<dc:creator>Wendy Hughes</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://shethought.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/photo2.jpg"></a>This is the second article in a series. Part 1 is <a href="http://shethought.com/2012/02/13/do-you-believe-in-life-after-death-a-caregivers-story/">here</a>.</p>
<p>The Big Responsibility
<em>My mom is far older than my father lived to be, but much healthier. Maybe because I know more, and I have more control &#8212; I&#8217;m sure that&#8217;s part of the difference in the sense of responsibility I feel. I <p><em>Continue reading <a href="http://shethought.com/2012/04/11/do-you-believe-in-life-after-death-part-two/">Do You Believe in Life After Death? Part Two</a></em></p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://shethought.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/photo2.jpg"><img class=" wp-image-1142    alignleft" style="margin: 2px;" title="photo2" src="http://shethought.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/photo2-225x300.jpg" alt="It must have been fashionable to have hand tinted photos cut out, applied to a wooden background carved to the outline shape of the picture, to place in a stand with a slot for the image. My mom must have been about five in this image, c 1926. I've never seen another picture displayed like this." width="158" height="210" /></a>This is the second article in a series. Part 1 is <a href="http://shethought.com/2012/02/13/do-you-believe-in-life-after-death-a-caregivers-story/">here</a>.</p>
<p><strong>The Big Responsibility</strong><br />
<em>My mom is far older than my father lived to be, but much healthier. Maybe because I know more, and I have more control &#8212; I&#8217;m sure that&#8217;s part of the difference in the sense of responsibility I feel. I ask myself all the time what I would want for myself if my daughter were taking care of me and how much decision making power I would want over my own destiny, and that usually my dad took care of all of us instead of the other way around.</em></p>
<p><em>I had promised him that I would take care of her.  When she became ill, there was an agreement that several of us driving a great distance to see her every week was inefficient, so she moved closer to us. My skepticism became more and more a part of my identity, and the hobby a part of my life, even as the caregiver role began to grow. Eventually, in an impulsive moment, I asked my mother if she believes in life after death.</em></p>
<p><strong>What I thought I had to do</strong><br />
My father had grown up in poverty in Chicago, but acquired an education in an expanding economy, so he frequently commented that he&#8217;d achieved success beyond his wildest ambitions. My mom is comparatively comfortable, not wealthy, but she doesn&#8217;t have to get a McJob to supplement her Social Security.</p>
<p>After my dad died my mom sold our old house and moved to the beach. I was between jobs and had lots of spare time; I went to <a href="http://shethought.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/photo3.jpg"><img class="alignright  wp-image-1179" title="photo3" src="http://shethought.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/photo3.jpg" alt="" width="384" height="320" /></a>visit her pretty often. We had fun; she would treat me to lunch and a pedicure, and then together we&#8217;d watch the sun set before I&#8217;d tackle the 18 mile drive back to the Valley.</p>
<p>On one of those visits, one Spring day, I let myself into her apartment; she had sheets of yellow legal paper spread out on her dining table, and was making lists of the numbers from her check register. I asked what she was doing. She explained that she was getting her taxes ready to take to the accountant. I picked up one of the pages, and compared it to the check register, and realized that there was no distinction such as Medical, or Legal; nothing to describe the list to make it useful to the tax accountant. I realized she was imitating what she had seen my father doing at tax time, but didn&#8217;t know how. I offered to take over the project for her, and that was the beginning of her dependence on me, a defining moment that I didn&#8217;t realize until much later.</p>
<p><strong>Moving to the Valley</strong><br />
When she was first widowed, she had resources and energy. She had girlfriends to travel with and still looked beautiful and loved to shop and dine out. Then slowly, she began to have increasing disability, back pain that no doctor could diagnose &#8212; and I dragged her to at least 15 different doctors. (It was during this time that one of the doctors we visited who was a gerontologist assured me that as long as her memory could be jogged by hints or reminders, that whatever was going on with her was not Alzheimers. With Alzheimers, he told me then, the actual brain cells where the memory processes take place are destroyed. He said that sometimes people are forgetful because of distraction or other reasons. That was my test for a long time. What has been happening lately is different.)</p>
<p>She lived in a luxury apartment in the most expensive real estate in Southern California, but couldn&#8217;t take a walk. She perched on the edge of her bed watching TV all day because her back was killing her. Finally she fell, and the emergency room doctor asked to see a list of her medications. This doctor noticed in one glance that there were two medications on the list that by themselves are harmless, but together caused an interaction that was causing her pain and paralysis. Even though she stopped taking one of the drugs, the damage was done. After over five years of inactivity, she&#8217;d gained weight, and she has never regained the verve and spark she&#8217;d had when she moved to the beach.</p>
<p>We persuaded her to move from Santa Monica to the San Fernando Valley. It wasn&#8217;t easy, but it made sense. The drive was horrible, and my mother was being sensible. She wanted to be close to her family, and we were willing to accommodate her if she made the compromise.</p>
<p><strong>My hobby &#8212; my friends</strong><br />
By this time, I had established myself firmly as a skeptic. My hobby was grassroots skepticism &#8212; I&#8217;ve served as an officer of my group, the Independent Investigations Group, IIG, in Hollywood, California. I loved volunteering for the Center for Inquiry there, and it served as my social matrix. I have friends from other parts of my life, and I love them, too; I&#8217;d never had a hobby before, except maybe painting ceramics, but not a consuming, enduring hobby that held my whole attention.</p>
<p>My identity as a skeptic, not necessarily as an atheist, started when I was listening to the car radio while waiting for my boyfriend to get off work. I had been listening to Dr. Dean Edell talk about Carl Sagan&#8217;s Demon Haunted World. So we bought the book, and in it Carl Sagan had written lovingly about Skeptical Inquirer Magazine. Months later, I received a solicitation for that magazine, and figured if it was good enough for Carl Sagan, it was good enough for me. When I began receiving the magazine, I noticed that advertised on the back cover there was a Center for Inquiry less than five miles from my house. At CFI there is a grassroots skeptics group, the Independent Investigations Group, IIG.</p>
<p>In IIG, I&#8217;ve learned to use key words and phrases in search engines to ferret out information not always obvious in cursory research. I have listened to conversations between experienced skeptics and by osmosis picked up handy techniques that I didn&#8217;t even realize I&#8217;d learned until the opportunity arose to use one of them! And the connections! I know a retired police officer, a lawyer, several film industry and media personnel, physicists, an archaeologist is one of my best friends, and several IT experts. If I want to know something, it&#8217;s an email away!</p>
<p><strong>Taking turns</strong><br />
Meanwhile, my sister and daughter and brother and I continued the rotation of visiting our mom/grandmother. We each had &#8220;assignments&#8221; or specialties. My sister does marketing; I am good at bookkeeping and legal matters; my daughter brings over her children for my mother, their great grandmother to marvel at. There are some variations; but this way she has at least one visit about six days out of seven per week, one evening on her own, and phone calls.</p>
<p>When she was ill in the past, and we&#8217;d had nurses care for her, there was an issue of safety. You don&#8217;t think about it when you go into a hospital &#8211; you hope that it&#8217;s going to be safe and you take your possessions with you. You assume that things are secure, that your loved ones are being cared for properly. But even as our discovery in IIG showed that Continuing Education Units for nurses can be awarded for <a title="State-Sponsored Quackery: Feng Shui and Snake Oil for California Nurses" href="http://www.csicop.org/si/show/state-sponsored_quackery_feng_shui_and_snake_oil_for_california_nurses">Therapeutic Touch and other non-evidence based practices</a> but also, the state of <a title="California has paid scores of criminals to care for residents" href="http://www.latimes.com/news/local/la-me-homecare-20100924,0,7752827,full.story">California can&#8217;t guarantee that In Home Support Services workers are not felons</a>.</p>
<p>In my family, our experience when she&#8217;d had surgery in the past was not that anyone tried to hurt my mother physically, but there was a little matter of some missing unsigned checks and a very confusing relationship with the nurse and her family that got out of hand. We were just lucky that it wasn&#8217;t worse. For that reason, I had been happy we were able to take care of her ourselves as long as possible. It&#8217;s not the same for all families; distance, resources, the level of disability &#8212; circumstances are all different. My cousins all lived far away from their mom &#8211; my aunt; but they found loving, thorough and evidently compassionate professional caregivers who kept my aunt comfortable in her home until her death last year. My cousins&#8217; lives are different from ours, and I think theirs are more the norm. People move away from where they grew up, and there is a reason that in-home caregiver businesses exist.</p>
<p>My mom has the illusion of independence; she has a housekeeper who comes weekly who has been cleaning her house for over 20 years. My mother can do all the ADLs, that means Activities of Daily Living: she can stand from a sitting position, toilet herself, dress and undress, move around unassisted, take care of personal hygiene. ADLs used to be a boundary for insurance companies to use to determine when a person was qualified to receive benefits from their long-term care policy. But now, some policies also include a clause that a diagnosis of cognitive impairment will trigger the policy benefits, even if the patient can do all the usual activities of daily living, but can&#8217;t remember what they had for lunch yesterday.</p>
<p><strong>Do you believe?</strong><br />
It was on one of my visits that I asked the question about life after death. I had been afraid to ask my dad. I thought about asking our friend Richard who was dying when we were in our fifties; but that, too, seemed pretty uncool, or I just didn&#8217;t have the right words. &#8220;Say, Richard, since you are dying, when you are done, and on the other side, if you have time, would you please let us know what it&#8217;s like?&#8221; When he was in the convalescent hospital before he died, he was only allowed a certain amount of liquid daily. I went to a cappuccino shop to buy him a fat free, sugar free iced latte &#8212; and happened to fill out a contest form for a pound of Jamaican blue mountain coffee beans, and forgot all about it. The week after Rich died, I got a phone call from the cappuccino shop that I&#8217;d won the coffee, and I never win anything, so I was imagining, just for one minute, that Richard was communicating with us from beyond the grave, that he was fine, but that he really wanted another latte.</p>
<p>My ex-father-in-law died the same year as my father. I used to go visit my mother in law, driving about 90 minutes to Ventura every other week, for about a year. We had been very close, even after I was divorced from my ex husband. She is Jewish, and even older than my mother. We used to go for a walk along the beach, have lunch, and talk about Deep Stuff. There were a lot of things I could talk about with her that I thought I could not share with my own mother. During this time that I was asserting my non-belief, we were in her apartment, changing into swimming suits. We were all alone. I said, &#8220;You know what, I don&#8217;t believe in God.&#8221; She looked over her shoulder, both shoulders, and whispered, &#8220;Neither do I…&#8221; and that started a dialog that went on for months. This was my first encounter with a Jewish skeptic, but not my last.</p>
<p>It has taken, though, twenty plus years for this dialog to take place with my own mother. I&#8217;ve had to explain the tattoo of the Darwin fish on my ankle to her two or three times; she forgets in between. But somehow, when I finally was talking about my hobby skepticism group the other evening, she asked, &#8220;Are you an atheist?&#8221; And I said, yes, and explained that I never deny being Jewish; I still feel a tremendous responsibility to honor the deaths of six million victims of genocide who did nothing wrong except that they were Jewish, but I just can&#8217;t believe that there is a supernatural being who answers prayers and runs things.  It just popped out of my mouth: &#8220;So Mom, do you believe in Life After Death?&#8221; and she said, &#8220;Well, nobody has come back to tell us one way or the other.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>Tradition!</strong><br />
Wow! After all the stories about her childhood in the tiny Jewish community in St. Paul, and dating only Jewish boys, and forcing me to go to Sunday school and although we didn&#8217;t have to go through Bat Mitzvah, we were forced against our will to endure Confirmation Class after which I never went to Temple again except to take my mother to High Holy Days until my father was dying &#8212; Oy! What a thunderbolt!</p>
<p>So &#8211; does that mean you, too, do not believe in a supernatural being who answers prayers and runs things?  What about all the emphasis on Jewish tradition?  Wait a minute &#8212; there was no Jewish Tradition. My family was so assimilated that we had a Hanukkah Bush. I specifically remember my parents bickering about it. My mother didn&#8217;t know the Friday night blessings over the Sabbath candles and challah. I had to explain to her about the Reform movement and the Jewish Renewal movement that I&#8217;d learned about in the little congregation of Jewish Mystics (modern Chasidim).</p>
<p>So I am relieved. I am the apple that has not fallen so far from the skepticism tree as I thought. Why this has come as such a surprise I don&#8217;t know. She has already paid for her ashes to be scattered at sea. She said that she thinks that when we die it&#8217;s like going to sleep. I certainly hope so; and I hope that it is a peaceful, dreamless sleep that comes painlessly after a really nice day. That seemed to be what it was like for my one friend&#8217;s mom, even though her circumstances were very different from ours.</p>
<div id="crp_related"><h3>Related Posts:</h3><ul><li><a href="http://shethought.com/2012/02/13/do-you-believe-in-life-after-death-a-caregivers-story/" rel="bookmark" class="crp_title">Do You Believe in Life After Death? A Caregiver&#8217;s story</a></li><li><a href="http://shethought.com/2010/11/01/end-of-the-line-part-two-backyard-burial/" rel="bookmark" class="crp_title">End of the Line, Part Two: Backyard Burial</a></li><li><a href="http://shethought.com/2012/01/13/a-tale-of-two-treatments/" rel="bookmark" class="crp_title">A Tale of Two Treatments</a></li></ul></div><p>=======<br />
This post, <a href="http://shethought.com/2012/04/11/do-you-believe-in-life-after-death-part-two/" rel="bookmark">Do You Believe in Life After Death? Part Two</a>, originally appeared on <a href="http://shethought.com">She Thought</a> on April 11, 2012.<br />
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		<title>The Curious Case of the Beauty Queen Bias</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Apr 2012 10:04:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sophie Hirschfeld</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Just hours ago, a close friend of mine joked that if I were only willing to go on medication for the rest of my life and didn&#8217;t care about my health so much, I could have a whole piece of cake instead of just two bites of it at his child&#8217;s birthday party. Only an <p><em>Continue reading <a href="http://shethought.com/2012/04/04/the-curious-case-of-the-beauty-queen-bias/">The Curious Case of the Beauty Queen Bias</a></em></p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just hours ago, a close friend of mine joked that if I were only willing to go on medication for the rest of my life and didn&#8217;t care about my health so much, I could have a whole piece of cake instead of just two bites of it at his child&#8217;s birthday party. Only an hour ago, I learned that I was dropped from a cabaret show because my hourglass figure, complete with large breasts and very broad hips, was tougher to fit on short notice than the other models and one model had dropped out so a need for even numbers meant someone had to be dropped and I, the most challenging model, was the sacrifice. Sometimes things happen that we tie into our attitudes about beauty and vanity and they seem discriminatory, but they&#8217;re completely understandable. Sometimes, what might be normal human behavior is seen negatively because of context. Beauty is a subject included in that weird bias. It is through this kind of a lens that I must view the seemingly giant debate over <a title="The I'm so Beautiful Backlash" href="http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2124782/Samantha-Brick-says-backlash-bile-yesterdays-Daily-Mail-proves-shes-right.html">an article by Samantha Brick</a>.<span id="more-1173"></span></p>
<p>Samantha Brick is too pretty. Samantha Brick has felt hurt by people&#8217;s behavior because she&#8217;s pretty. Samantha Brick is now hated by masses on the internet for writing about the experience of being pretty. Shame, the internet cries, on Samantha Brick!</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not a beauty queen and I wouldn&#8217;t say my appearances are better than average. That being said, part of my very well-being, my work and my success in my work, relies on my appearances. I am not a beauty queen and most people would consider Mrs. Brick a superior beauty, but I think I can see her point, a little.</p>
<p>My friend&#8217;s joke was funny to me, earlier. That friend has seen me struggle, now, for over a year in a battle against my own body. His comment is a great acknowledgement of things that have become habit to me; things that are stressful and, sometimes, heartbreaking. The lady who dropped me from the Angry Woman Cabaret was also not being unkind. She was trying to be reasonable about her own presentation. But, their actions are from the perspective of those close to me or directly tied to what is going on. People who don&#8217;t know me treat these situations differently. I&#8217;ve experienced people witnessing me count calories and obsess over food calling me vain and unreasonable. There are few people who guess that I do it because I&#8217;m diabetic and controlling my health through diet and exercise. My renewed interest in exercise is seen as similarly obsessive, vain and unnecessary. While only my closest friends would otherwise have known I was taken out of a show, if it were a topic of conversation outside of my social realm, I can only guess how it would be seen. There&#8217;s not a way to explain what happened without sounding vain or maybe pathetic to strangers. I have also experienced people comment on my shape and how I dress. I won&#8217;t deny that I am vain, either. I am vain. But, I&#8217;m not a beauty stereotype, so it is often allowed, depending on the company I keep.</p>
<p>So, as I ponder what I&#8217;ve read from Mrs. Brick, I can understand how what she says may not be entirely untrue. And, before people&#8217;s thoughts wander back into the question of who is beautiful or not, this isn&#8217;t about who you see as attractive. This is about how other people see her. She&#8217;s right, when someone is seen as attractive, things do happen. I&#8217;ve seen men spend unreasonable amounts of money on women based entirely on their appearance. In one of Richard Wiseman&#8217;s books, he talks about a study done that showed women with larger breasts were more likely to be helped if they were hitchhiking. I also think that there are women who become insanely jealous of others based on looks. I don&#8217;t, however, think that&#8217;s the only thing that powers what Brick was complaining about. I think that another problem is not how others view her appearance. I think it might be how others view her behavior which affects her appearance.</p>
<p>As a culture, both in the United States and, I suspect, most places affected by Western culture, we have a love-hate relationship with vanity. If someone has large breasts, we are mostly fine with it. If someone purchased their large breast implants, though? Many people dislike it. Pretty eyes are a fortunate genetic accident, but pretty eyes surrounded in lots of smokey, powdery make-up is seen as excessive by some harsh critics and stylish by others.  Then there is the battle between our concept of beauty and the tipped scales. Big and beautiful is a new, fabulous trend. Confidence in a human form that is often considered unattractive because of some arbitrary line drawn in the sand about what size is attractive is wonderful, to us, at least lately. But if that same big and beautiful person suddenly becomes skinny, what happens? Confidence in herself might be seen differently. We see self-confidence differently if we see it as someone being beautiful and knowing it when they are matched to an ideal than we see it if someone is attractive and atypical.</p>
<p>Interestingly, this debate also reminds me of the awful debate over the <a title="Science Cheerleader" href="http://www.sciencecheerleader.com/">Science Cheerleader</a> a year or so ago, when people objected to some sort of objectification rather than accepting and welcoming a different form of science advocacy. The argument was made that we couldn&#8217;t have barbie doll science. If we advocated science, we wanted it to be representative of everybody and by &#8220;everybody,&#8221; we meant the average, eccentric scientist who wasn&#8217;t a &#8220;barbie.&#8221; Many people failed to see the hypocrisy. I&#8217;m also reminded of community debates over sexiness in science, activism and general geekery. Are geeks allowed to be sexy or attractive? Aren&#8217;t we somehow buying into a culture of objectification if we are? But, as we ask those questions, we&#8217;re implying that we want to remain ignorant of the flipside. If we reject these things in our circles, aren&#8217;t we then promoting an intolerance to those who fit this stereotype? Aren&#8217;t we perpetuating the very bigotry that Samantha Brick is complaining about?</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t think that what people are angry about is only that she is beautiful. I think she&#8217;s wrong that the backlash is something that proves her point. No, the backlash seems to say that people are angry that she&#8217;s beautiful <em>and she knows it</em>. To us, she&#8217;s too beautiful to acknowledge that she&#8217;s beautiful. She&#8217;s too beautiful to be vain. She&#8217;s too beautiful because she&#8217;s aware. That&#8217;s the crime that she shares with the Science Cheerleader and the crime that she shares with countless other women. If you&#8217;re too beautiful, we don&#8217;t want you to tell us about it and we don&#8217;t want you to use it in our social, academic or eccentric social groups. Why? Because we&#8217;re too immature to handle it.</p>
<div id="crp_related"><h3>Related Posts:</h3><ul><li><a href="http://shethought.com/2011/05/24/the-quake-heard-round-the-internet-and-her-chest/" rel="bookmark" class="crp_title">The Quake Heard &#8216;Round the Internet, and Her Chest</a></li><li><a href="http://shethought.com/2011/07/05/dear-richard-dawkins/" rel="bookmark" class="crp_title">Dear Richard Dawkins,</a></li><li><a href="http://shethought.com/2010/10/19/no-touchy/" rel="bookmark" class="crp_title">No Touchy!</a></li></ul></div><p>=======<br />
This post, <a href="http://shethought.com/2012/04/04/the-curious-case-of-the-beauty-queen-bias/" rel="bookmark">The Curious Case of the Beauty Queen Bias</a>, originally appeared on <a href="http://shethought.com">She Thought</a> on April 4, 2012.<br />
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		<title>The Bane of Human Remains</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Mar 2012 13:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sophie Hirschfeld</dc:creator>
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<p>Lately, I’ve been doing a lot of researching on mummies for a project that I’m working on. This researching has branched off in several directions and</p>
<a href="http://shethought.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/tut.jpg"></a><p class="wp-caption-text">King Tut: An Invasion of Privacy?</p>
<p>resulted in me learning some fascinating things. My research on mummies has a lot to do <p><em>Continue reading <a href="http://shethought.com/2012/03/22/the-bane-of-human-remains-repost/">The Bane of Human Remains</a></em></p>]]></description>
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<p>Lately, I’ve been doing a lot of researching on mummies for a project that I’m working on. This researching has branched off in several directions and</p>
<div id="attachment_1170" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://shethought.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/tut.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-1170" title="tut" src="http://shethought.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/tut.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="204" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">King Tut: An Invasion of Privacy?</p></div>
<p>resulted in me learning some fascinating things. My research on mummies has a lot to do with hygienic and medical histories of the remains of ancient cultures and, totally coincidentally, <em>io9</em> recently published this article: <a href="http://io9.com/5636808/do-we-have-the-right-to-violate-king-tuts-medical-privacy">Do we have the right to violate King Tut’s privacy?</a></p>
<p>The article argues that even though mummies come from a time so far removed from our own that current ethical concerns about remains don’t apply, that because we might be looking at medical histories of the long-dead, including King Tut’s, for attention and because we don’t want our own remains treated the way we treat mummies, then we should respect their medical histories as we do modern patients.<span id="more-1169"></span></p>
<p>This isn’t the first time I’ve seen concerns like this expressed. Various groups have raised similar concerns and it is a tough set of questions to address. First, I want to mention a few things about why we study the medical history of mummies and other remains from ancient cultures.</p>
<p><strong>Who Owns History?</strong></p>
<p>Essentially, history is painted for us by the victors of the past, sometimes, and sometimes it is painted for us by what little we find that is left behind. Our history tells us a lot about human behavior and so by looking into the past, we gain knowledge about ourselves. If we ignored history or hid from it, we run the risk of viewing ourselves through a lens that is so distorted, we might repeat past mistakes or ignore the needs that we currently have.</p>
<p>Imagine, for a moment, that we forgot how we think the Black Plague was spread through Europe. We think, currently, that it was spread through the fleas which lived on the rats which were common amongst the people at the time. What would happen if we weren’t aware of not only that, but other cases of how disease has spread in history? How would that affect how we view disease today?</p>
<p><strong>Who Owns Medical History?</strong></p>
<p>Essentially, we gain by knowing about the medical histories of those who died in the past. While we may create headlines by announcing that King Tut had an STD, it is also the case that knowing he had an STD might tell us something about STDs in his time, especially if we learn about other mummies who had them. I know you’re probably aware that we have current medical studies that we also rely on in order to benefit ourselves, but conditions now and conditions in history are different and even the illnesses that we are concerned with now are not always the same as they were in the past; neither are the environmental and social conditions. That doesn’t mean that we have left those elements behind, completely, though, or that we gain nothing by examining events that happened in those different contexts.</p>
<p>In order to approach this matter practically, and to consider it rationally, it may be important to look to the ways that related issues have been addressed in the more recent past. Let me take a detour for a moment and talk a little about the Native American Graves and Repatriation Act.</p>
<p><strong>The Native American Graves and Repatriation Act</strong></p>
<p>Back when the Americas were first being colonized, there were already people here. The colonists, though, didn’t see the people here as being the same as them and they often treated them horribly, denied them rights, stole their land and even made them slaves. Alongside this, the remains of the people who lived in the Americas were also often disturbed. The colonists sometimes saw the remains as novelties, searched them for valuables and even used whatever they found for trade. In order to address the ethical questions surrounding older remains, like those of King Tut, I will compare them to some reasons that NAGPRA was created.</p>
<p>Probably the most important reason for NAGPRA is for the protection of Native American rights equal to the protection of the rights of the other cultures and social groups in the United States. From the onset of colonization until only a few decades ago, the Native American population’s rights that seemed so basic to the invading cultures were not respected. Property rights and inheritance concerns were primary battles for Native Americans who witnessed the graves of their relatives being dug up and looted. NAGPRA was supposed to help change all that by criminalizing the looting of the graves of Native Americans and taking Native remains. This didn’t necessarily put Native Americans under the same legal umbrella as the rest of the country, but it attempted to give them equal footing within cultural settings, history and social situations that were unlike their own.</p>
<p>The First Amendment was also a central point to the creation of NAGPRA. Death itself is viewed, across cultures, as having religious significance. How we deal with the dead within that context varies from one religion to the other and great pains are taken in order to respect the religious wishes of the dead and their remaining relatives. Because of the religious significance of deaths and burials, NAGPRA is considered a protection of Native American religious rights that reinforce the First Amendment, the same law that grants people the right to perform religious ceremonies in prison and to publicly protest.</p>
<p><strong>Human Rights &#8212; For the Dead?</strong></p>
<p>NAGPRA was developed in the interest of human rights that were bestowed upon the United States by our adherence to the constitution. While mummies are not privileged enough to have the rights granted by the constitution, it is worth noting that the ethical concerns that grant those protections should be considered when regarding the remains of other cultures. Certainly, due to the laws regarding lineage in NAGPRA, should any of the remains we receive from other countries be remains that can be traced to living family and the family does not grant permission for scientists to examine those remains, the most ethical action to take would be to return the remains. This is because the part of NAGPRA which is concerned with lineage is based on basic principals supported by many bioethicists. In fact, that is where we should look next in order to consider the fate of remains like those of King Tut:</p>
<p><strong><em>1) Bioethics</em></strong></p>
<p>Bioethics, naturally, is a complex field of study. Any place where ethical concerns have vast gray areas, where each side has a valid complaint, is going to be a difficult field for someone to not only learn, but to navigate. That being said, bioethics experts have still managed to come up with some basic things to consider whenever they are addressing an issue in the medical or scientific world. In case you want to enrich your knowledge about these matters, I highly encourage you to look up the Belmont Report the following comments are based on it.</p>
<p><strong><em>2) Justice</em></strong></p>
<p>While the brief discussion on NAGPRA already touches on this concept, it is a vital concept when it comes to bioethical concerns. Justice is an ambiguous term whose definition swings wildly within each society. In one society, cutting off the hand of a thief may be considered ‘justice,’ while, in another, justice may be only the containment of those who might do harm to others. But justice is not just about punishment, it can also be about the distribution of resources or the way we acquire authoritative positions within a group. So, the question that has to be asked, and that is being asked in the above linked article is, has the treatment of King Tut’s remains and those of other ancient people caused them an injustice?</p>
<p><em><strong>3) Autonomy</strong></em></p>
<p>Autonomy, in this case, is the allowance of an individual to make decisions for themselves. If you or I are autonomous individuals, then we are people who are considered capable of making our own decisions. Not everyone considered capable of this task, though, and it is frequently the case that some parts of the population are disallowed to make decisions for themselves. For example, children, the mentally insane and, oftentimes, the dead.</p>
<p>In the case of King Tut, he clearly isn’t capable, in his incapacitated state, to make his own decisions. In his lifetime, the possibility that people would be attempting to examine his medical history a few thousand years into the future, was not really something anyone considered. As such, the King was not even capable of granting his permission or stating his wishes in case something like this were to occur. King Tut was, then, and is, now, incapable of making a decision for himself. When someone in our own time is incapable of making decisions for themselves, those decisions fall to their immediate family. If the family is unavailable, it is then a decision that is turned over to the closest reliable people who are the most informed. This means that the scientists dealing with Tut have to make his decision for him.</p>
<p>This seems like it shouldn’t be such a big deal. We make decisions for the dead all the time. We decide if they should be buried or cremated or if they should be tossed into the ocean or turned into fertilizer. So, what’s so different about King Tut? Well, King Tut is King Tut. The reason we raise concern about King Tut and not the many other corpses that we make decisions for is because King Tut was once someone very important and now he is a gateway of information that lets us look far into the past. But the issues surrounding Tut are not just about decisions regarding his grave. Instead, they’re issues surrounding privacy, to which the same applies. We do very little to respect the privacy of our dead. Instead, the privacy of our dead is one of the first things we violate once they die. We sell their stuff, we investigate their financial and medical issues and, if they’re someone important, we broadcast it across the world, just in case anyone else wanted to know about it.</p>
<p>Autonomy only seems to exist for the dead if the deceased planned far enough ahead.</p>
<p><strong><em>4) Dignity</em></strong></p>
<p>The idea that each individual deserves a certain level of respect and ethical treatment is another concept that comes rolling through the debate on how to treat ancient remains. In the case of King Tut and other remains that we allow scientists to evaluate, it seems like their preservation and the effort put into learning their stories is the absolute highest amount of respect that we could possibly give them. Ensuring that they are not smashed about and ground up into some sort of silly compound by some health quack and not leaving them out in the elements to be swallowed back up by the Earth is also, very likely, the best we can do to ensure that the remains are treated in an ethically sound manner.</p>
<p><strong><em>5) Beneficence and Non-Maleficence</em></strong></p>
<p>Sometimes, it is important to do something for the good of the individual and sometimes it is important to do no harm. The problem is, sometimes doing no harm means not doing what is best for someone and sometimes doing something for the good of the individual is extremely harmful. The King Tut dilemma seems to boil down to this point. What we gain, overall, from the study and sharing of information of King Tut and other ancient remains stands to benefit our society as a whole. The overall benefit far outweighs the tiny cost that a man that died so long ago may not have liked what we’re doing to his corpse.</p>
<p>I can’t possibly give a completely objective answer to all the questions surrounding human remains and their treatment by science, since there are so many hazy areas to roam through, but I do hope that the added information helps people make some conclusions of their own. My own stance, I think, is a fairly pragmatic one, involving a basic concept of what I think is for the greater good. But first, let me address the main conclusion of the original article that inspired this trail of thoughts.</p>
<p>The author of the io9 article suggests that we use what we know of how we want our remains to be treated in order to make decisions for King Tut. The problem is, there is tremendous variation, even today, in how people want their remains to be treated. Contributions to science does happen to be one of those options. Sure, as living creatures that rely so much on our social links to survive and who have been taught to be embarrassed about things such as STDs (and we happened to have one), we would be horrified if we found out that once we died, billions of people would have access to our medical records. When we’re dead, though, we would hardly have a reason to worry about it.</p>
<p><strong>Doing the Greater Good</strong></p>
<p>It is often said, when someone dies, that the funeral is not for the dead, it is for the sake of the living. It is the living who can measure what they have lost; it is the living who need answers and who seek closure. It seems to me that no matter how long someone has been dead, the most ethical decision to make regarding their corpse is to be as attentive as possible to the needs of the living – to do the greater good. That’s why we have funerals and why NAGPRA exists and why we learn about King Tut and share his story with the world.</p>
<div id="crp_related"><h3>Related Posts:</h3><ul><li><a href="http://shethought.com/2010/12/24/a-non-expert-review-king-tut-exhibition/" rel="bookmark" class="crp_title">A Non-Expert Review: King Tut Exhibition</a></li><li><a href="http://shethought.com/2011/02/25/making-choices-to-save-your-life/" rel="bookmark" class="crp_title">Making Choices to Save Your Life</a></li><li><a href="http://shethought.com/2010/07/23/thinking-critically-about-my-faith/" rel="bookmark" class="crp_title">Thinking Critically About My Faith</a></li></ul></div><p>=======<br />
This post, <a href="http://shethought.com/2012/03/22/the-bane-of-human-remains-repost/" rel="bookmark">The Bane of Human Remains</a>, originally appeared on <a href="http://shethought.com">She Thought</a> on March 22, 2012.<br />
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		<description><![CDATA[<em><a href="http://www.undnews.com/indians"></a>I don’t know how many of you have&#8230;..</em><em>&#8230;Gay friends&#8230;&#8230;(laughter)</em><em>&#8230;Black friends&#8230;..(laughter)</em></p>
<p><em>&#8230;Muslims living in your city&#8230;.(laughter)</em></p>
<p><em>&#8230;Spanish-speaking laborers&#8230;.(laughter)</em></p>
<p><em>&#8230;Wives&#8230;.(laughter)</em></p>
<p><em>&#8230;Mothers&#8230;.(laughter)</em></p>
<p><em>&#8230;Daughters&#8230;&#8230;(laughter)</em></p>
<p><em>But I have one, and s/he’s [negative stereotype]&#8230;(laughter)<span id="more-1140"></span></em></p>
<p>Funny stuff, this bigotry. There’s so much of it in the everyday noise that we get completely anesthetized to it. It’s very easy to ignore, and it’s really hard to know if <p><em>Continue reading <a href="http://shethought.com/2012/03/12/uncivilized-society/">Uncivilized Society</a></em></p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><strong></strong><em><a href="http://www.undnews.com/indians"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1164" style="margin-left: 2px; margin-right: 2px;" title="fightingwhites" src="http://shethought.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/fightingwhites.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="363" /></a>I don’t know how many of you have&#8230;..</em><em>&#8230;Gay friends&#8230;&#8230;(laughter)</em><em>&#8230;Black friends&#8230;..(laughter)</em></p>
<p><em>&#8230;Muslims living in your city&#8230;.(laughter)</em></p>
<p><em>&#8230;Spanish-speaking laborers&#8230;.(laughter)</em></p>
<p><em>&#8230;Wives&#8230;.(laughter)</em></p>
<p><em>&#8230;Mothers&#8230;.(laughter)</em></p>
<p><em>&#8230;Daughters&#8230;&#8230;(laughter)</em></p>
<p><em>But I have one, and s/he’s [negative stereotype]&#8230;(laughter)<span id="more-1140"></span></em></p>
<p>Funny stuff, this bigotry. There’s so much of it in the everyday noise that we get completely anesthetized to it. It’s very easy to ignore, and it’s really hard to know if speaking out against it is worth the effort. Is it really worth debating racial politics with, say, my mechanic when no matter what I say he won’t ever change his mind? I can always just quietly take my car somewhere else, but silence implies collusion with the bigotry.</p>
<p>The unfortunate reality is that speaking up puts you at risk. When personal ethics threaten your in-group status, or even your physical safety, deciding what to do about a bigot can be very difficult. Marginalizing people who are physically and culturally different than you in order to maintain in-group status is an ancient strategy. It is probably evolutionarily adaptive to quickly identify someone who looks or behaves differently as Other. In today’s global human society, where cultural and economic systems are interlaced, tolerating bigotry has stopped working for the betterment of our species. It’s unfortunate that the instinct to turn Other into Enemy still holds such strong sway in modern human thinking.</p>
<p><strong>&#8230;<a href="http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=teh%20gay">Teh Gay</a>&#8230;.</strong><br />
Bigotry is certainly a distasteful feature of American politics. Witness presidential candidate <a href="http://blogs.browardpalmbeach.com/pulp/2012/01/santorum_gingrich_anti-gay_florida.php">Rick Santorum</a>’s rhetoric against gay people.  I can’t believe that in 2012 someone who is so profoundly ignorant and hateful is considered a credible candidate for the presidency of the United States. His type of foolishness hurts  <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Matthew_Shepard">real people</a>. I was an ethnographic intern with the Laramie police department when University of Wyoming student Matthew Shepard was tortured and killed because he was gay. The one thing that still haunts me from that crime scene is the shovel bites of blood-soaked soil missing from the embankment at the crime scene.</p>
<p><strong>&#8230;Blacks&#8230;</strong><br />
A noisy minority of Americans hate-hate brown-skinned people, and President Barack Obama in particular. (See <a href="http://losangeles.cbslocal.com/2011/04/15/orange-county-republican-party-member-circulates-racist-e-mail-targeted-at-president-obama/">here</a>, <a href="http://newsone.com/nation/casey-gane-mccalla/top-10-racist-limbaugh-quotes/">here</a>, <a href="http://www.baltimoresun.com/news/opinion/readersrespond/bs-ed-gingrich-racism-20120125,0,6086831.story">here</a>, and use Google for about ten-fucktillion more depressingly idiotic and racist examples.) <a href="http://thinkprogress.org/justice/2012/01/13/403911/kansas-gop-house-speaker-prays-that-obamas-children-be-fatherless-and-his-wife-a-widow/?mobile=nc">Some</a> political lunatics even publicly pray for the death of our president. This violent rhetoric resonates strongly with the <a href="http://www.doesthismakesense.com/index.php/featured/contributors/terrie-t-peterson/274-american-political-dysfunction-explained">authoritarian</a> Republican base, but it’s appallingly, dangerously, inappropriate in my opinion.</p>
<p><strong>&#8230;Swarthy people who are Muslim&#8230;.</strong><br />
Bigotry against Muslims, another group stereotyped as swarthy, <a href="http://theamericanmuslim.org/tam.php/features/articles/celebrating-and-encouraging-violence-against-muslims">abounds</a>, and often manifests itself in violence:</p>
<p><em><a href="http://www.altmuslimah.com/a/b/gva/4537/">Growing anti-Muslim bias</a> in America is no secret. Over the past few years, <a href="http://www.saharazizlaw.com/resources.php?id=67">numerous reports </a>have exposed concerted anti-Muslim campaigns that mobilize people to hate their Muslim compatriots. For example, the Center for American Progress meticulously documents seven foundations spending over $40 million to fund anti-Muslim propaganda that has been widely repeated by political leaders, grassroots groups and the media. The Southern Poverty Law Center, an expert on hate groups in America, also reports the apparent surge in anti-Muslim sentiment in America is driven by a small, closely knit cadre of activists. The hate generated by these professional anti-Muslim bigots often leads to violence.</em></p>
<p>As with bullies everywhere, the victims are often vulnerable women and children. 9/11 bred the fiction that all Muslims are terrorists. This is simply not true. Dangerous lunatics are not limited to any one religion, unfortunately. They come from everywhere.</p>
<p><strong>&#8230;More brown-skinned people&#8230;.</strong><br />
Extreme anti-immigration rhetoric is becoming more <a href="http://www.adl.org/civil_rights/anti_immigrant/">mainstream</a> with an attendant increase in violence.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.civilrights.org/publications/hatecrimes/escalating-violence.html">The increase in violence</a> against Hispanics correlates closely with the increasingly heated debate over Comprehensive Immigration Reform and an escalation in the level of anti-immigrant vitriol on radio, television, and the Internet. While reasonable people can and will disagree about the parameters of Comprehensive Immigration Reform, in some instances, the commentary about immigration reform has not been reasonable; it has been inflammatory. Warned an April 2009 assessment from the Office of Intelligence and Analysis at the U.S. Department of Homeland Security (DHS), &#8220;in some cases, anti-Immigration or strident pro-enforcement fervor has been directed against specific groups and has the potential to turn violent.&#8221;</p>
<p>Of course, the actual indigenous Americans have dark skin. It’s the Northern Europeans who are the infiltrators. Oh, the humanity!</p>
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<p>If you wonder if something is actually racist, check it on <a href="http://yoisthisracist.com/">this source</a>. The answers are hilarious, and the questions are appalling. You can search for your question or submit it to the author. Spoiler: If you have to ask, the answer is almost always yes.</p>
<p><strong>&#8230;People who don’t have penises*&#8230;.</strong></p>
<p dir="ltr"><strong><a href="http://adweek.blogs.com/photos/uncategorized/2007/04/18/leggsad_2.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1166" title="tiger rug" src="http://shethought.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/tiger-rug.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="244" /></a></strong></p>
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<p>Men are privileged, and a depressing number of people think that’s as it should be. Below are just a few ways in which sexism undermines social cohesion, productivity, and culture.</p>
<p>My former hometown newspaper printed <a href="http://www.laramieboomerang.com/articles/2012/01/10/news/doc4f0bc1fb1ebbd042715833.txt">an articl</a>e about the state’s appalling wage gap. It is the worst in the nation. From the comments: “Love the cat-fighting going on here with the typical crybabying from the fairer sex.” Yes. “Crybabying” about a fundamental injustice which keeps many women and children in poverty.</p>
<p>According to this <a href="blank">source</a>, one out of every six American women has been the victim of a sexual assault. One in six. You know victims. We all do. You just might not know exactly who has been a victim because women don’t talk openly about it. We’re supposed to feel ashamed for being attacked. Some men even <a href="http://www.guardian.co.uk/commentisfree/belief/2012/jan/25/rick-santorum-rape-pregnancy">believe</a> that girls and women who are impregnated during rape have received a gift from god. I would prefer that god not let any of us, especially children, be raped in the first place.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.dvrc-or.org/domestic/violence/resources/C61/">One in four</a> women has experienced domestic violence. You know victims. We all do. You just might not know exactly who has been a victim because women don’t talk openly about it. We’re supposed to feel ashamed for being attacked.</p>
<p>My own mom died from sexism. In September of 1988 she went to the emergency room with dizziness and a terrible, debilitating headache. The doctor told her she was weak. He accused her of whining and exaggerating the pain. She was terribly embarrassed. The doctor sent her home. Where she died of a ruptured brain aneurysm a few hours later. I would like to think this is an unlikely scenario today, but I’m not so sure it couldn’t happen again.</p>
<p>Even now, in the developed world, circa 2012, bigotry against women thrives. It’s inherent in <a href="http://www.genderads.com/page9/violence/violence.html">advertising</a> (link warning: trigger alert and probably NSFW). It’s in the way that society undervalues work in childcare, education, and nursing. It’s in the way people default to male pronouns when talking about CEOs, doctors, justices, soldiers, or world leaders. It’s in the way we automatically assume that teachers, nurses, and waitstaff are women. It’s in the perpetual myth that girls just aren’t as smart as boys. In the fact that standards of beauty are typically about women being fuckable by men. Of course casual sexism just blends into the noise in this environment.</p>
<p><strong>&#8230;From externalized hostility to internalized equality&#8230;</strong><br />
By marginalizing large swaths of our human capital, we vastly reduce our capacity for technological and intellectual innovation. Tomorrow’s brilliant thinkers may well be women, and/or gay, and/or brown-skinned, or any other variation of our diverse humanity. We need everyone, all of us, working together to solve issues like global warming, to improve our health and extend our lifespans, and to feed, educate, and nurture the children of our species.</p>
<p>It is no longer evolutionarily adaptive to turn Other into Enemy. We can choose to maximize our ability to adapt and evolve, or we can remain mired in our primordial cognitive habits, hastening our own extinction.</p>
<p>Which is why I spoke out last week when I heard a doctor tell a sexist joke in a public lecture hall. This instance seemed like a rare moment when speaking up privately in a non-confrontational way might possibly make a small difference. If nothing else, maybe I saved someone else’s mom.</p>
<p><em>* I realize that there are myriad variations of gender identity. For the purposes of this discussion, I’m thinking of people whom society labels and treats as “women,” whether or not they have penises.</em></p>
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<div><em>x-posted at <a href="http://www.doesthismakesense.com/writers/uncivilized-society" target="_blank">DTMS</a> and <a href="http://open.salon.com/blog/anthropologist_underground" target="_blank">Open Salon</a></em></div>
<div id="crp_related"><h3>Related Posts:</h3><ul><li><a href="http://shethought.com/2010/03/25/i-am-a-grassroots-skeptic-heidi-anderson/" rel="bookmark" class="crp_title">I Am A Grassroots Skeptic: Heidi Anderson</a></li><li><a href="http://shethought.com/2012/01/17/american-political-dysfunction-explained-sort-of/" rel="bookmark" class="crp_title">American Political Dysfunction Explained, Sort-Of</a></li><li><a href="http://shethought.com/2011/07/23/i-can-dress-myself-thank-you/" rel="bookmark" class="crp_title">I Can Dress Myself, Thank You.</a></li></ul></div><p>=======<br />
This post, <a href="http://shethought.com/2012/03/12/uncivilized-society/" rel="bookmark">Uncivilized Society</a>, originally appeared on <a href="http://shethought.com">She Thought</a> on March 12, 2012.<br />
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		<description><![CDATA[<p align="LEFT"><span style="font-size: medium;"><a href="http://shethought.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/glowingskulls.jpg"></a>I think we are all used to skeptic meetings of some sort. There are the big mega meetings like TAM (The Amazing Meeting). You and 1000 of your close friends in a huge venue. Big name speakers and all the glitz of Vegas are featured. Then there are the local SIP <p><em>Continue reading <a href="http://shethought.com/2012/03/06/college-of-curiosity/">College of Curiosity</a></em></p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p align="LEFT"><span style="font-size: medium;"><a href="http://shethought.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/glowingskulls.jpg"><img class=" wp-image-1157 alignleft" style="margin: 3px;" title="glowingskulls" src="http://shethought.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/glowingskulls.jpg" alt="" width="179" height="135" /></a>I think we are all used to skeptic meetings of some sort. There are the big mega meetings like TAM (The Amazing Meeting). You and 1000 of your close friends in a huge venue. Big name speakers and all the glitz of Vegas are featured. Then there are the local SIP (Skeptics in the Pub). Drinking and skeptics in an intimate pub atmosphere, just the locals. However, on May 26 in St. Louis there is going to be a new kind of skeptic get together. The focus, in fact, won&#8217;t be on skepticism. The focus will be on fun! A chance for skeptics and critical thinkers, or perhaps it&#8217;s better to just say the curious, to get together. The ve</span><span style="font-size: medium;"><a href="http://shethought.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/031-1-1.jpg"><img class=" wp-image-1155 alignright" style="margin: 3px;" title="031-1-1" src="http://shethought.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/031-1-1.jpg" alt="" width="197" height="272" /></a></span><span style="font-size: medium;">nue reminds me of a giant playground for adults. The speakers are going to talk on things we all are curious about. There will also be interactive workshops, with a focus on fun. Children have Disney world, the curious have the <a title="College of Curiosity!" href="http://curious1729.com/">College of Curiosity</a></span>.<span id="more-1153"></span></p>
<p align="LEFT"><span style="font-size: medium;">I&#8217;m going to be speaking on alien abductions. The focus will be on how I interact with alien abductees, and to dispel the sad media driven image of the average abductee.</span></p>
<p align="LEFT"><span style="font-size: medium;">There will be also a fun workshop about aliens! I&#8217;ve spoken over the years at various events on French superstitions, ghost hunting in New Hampshire and my skeptic books for preschoolers. The most popular topic, by far, though is when I speak about alien abductions. Everyone probably knows someone that has had the abduction experience, but most abductees have learned not to talk about it. Learn what their world is like, and how often it&#8217;s more exciting and interesting than the everyday world most people inhabit. Plus aliens are just plain fun.</span></p>
<p align="LEFT"><span style="font-size: medium;">I&#8217;m sure there will be plenty of time to hang out with all the speakers, and part of the fun for me is answering questions one on one. This will be a very different kind of get together, and I hope it becomes a yearly event! </span></p>
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This post, <a href="http://shethought.com/2012/03/06/college-of-curiosity/" rel="bookmark">College of Curiosity</a>, originally appeared on <a href="http://shethought.com">She Thought</a> on March 6, 2012.<br />
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